I was watching a reality show where a couple was having sex problems. Even though the guy was having regular sex with his partner she was not being satisfied. At the end of the show it was revealed that she was using sex toys to pleasure herself. The couple did not break up but if I was that guy I would of thought about breaking up because to me she is technically nonverbally telling him he has a small penis and sucks in bed . I mean she isn't satisfied with his penis but is satisfied with plastic. It's obvious that he does not size up to it.
These days you hear a lot about guys being dumped because of size and I think the main reason for it is because of sex toys. Women can now get whatever size they want so not only do us guys have to compete with other men but we now have to compete with plastic lol. The funny thing about it is that it's kind of our fault considering most likely men made the sex toys.
Question for guys: What would you do if you were in this guy's shoes where your girlfriend or wife is so unsatisfied she has to resort to getting off with plastic?
Question for girls: If a guy had a 6 inch wang and you had a 10 inch sex toy would the toy be more pleasurable and satisfying than the guy? Would you lie to the guy and tell him he is satisfying you and then in secret use the toy?
Guys' Q -- Time to up your game. Girls will always be able to satisfy themselves better than any other person (at least if they're average). The difference between masturbation and sex is the intimacy, not just the size. If your girl prefers a toy, it has nothing to do with your size, you just need to work on your techniques.
ReplyDeleteGirls' Q -- The toy should NOT always be more pleasurable. It should be easier, yeah, but not the solution to the problem. How about working with your dude to help him satisfy you better? You'll both be happier in the end. It's probably more fun anyway. ;)
If all else fails, I still don't think it's a size problem, meaning other things need to be worked out. If it is just that, get out of the relationship, because it sounds like SOMEONE has other issues. (Poor guy... Girls suck. :( )
If the problem is size, there are different ways a guy can try and add more pleasure for a girl. Such as the small finger vibrators that can also be put onto a guys penis. Maybe it's the guys technique and has nothing to do with size. The girl should let the guy know what she wants him to do, and how to satisfy her. If their still having problems, there are other ways a guy can satisfy a girl besides intercourse. it's not a one sided thing, it's not totally the guy's fault, and it's not totally the girls.Sex toys have so much more put into them that a guys penis does not have, that is why they are "more satisfying". and it's not even that they are, it's that the girl knows how to work it to make it satisfying, along with all the extra vibrating and stimulating ridges and whatever else!there made to enhance pleasure. Technique is where it's all at. once you got that covered , the girl should be satisfied perfectly fine.
ReplyDelete" I mean she isn't satisfied with his penis but is satisfied with plastic. "
ReplyDeleteMost women I know are satisfied with credit cards too! lol
Not sure if I would be upset or more emmasculted, if I wasn't pleasing her and she still wanted me to then I'd want her help to achieve that. If it involves more tongue, finger stimulation, more foreplay, different positions or whatever then I'm ready and willing, at the end between the man and his wife, girlfriend, whatever partners they are. keep it low between you too, be more frankly and things so easy, because at the END YOU ONLY Two IN THAT SITUATION SO FIND OUT THE WAY YOU BOOTH GETTING SATISFIED...
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I'm really leaning toward the fact that the guy probably didn't know how to please her. Uh.... he needs to learn. Using vibrators have nothing to do with size, most of the time. It has to do with learning about how to please yourself and what you like. If her man couldn't figure out that he was doing something wrong and worked to change it, then that's his problem - let's not blame it on her use of vibrators.
ReplyDeleteGirls who prefer toys have to have something wrong with them. How the hell can you prefer a plastic, vibrating stick to a man who loves you, who pins your hands to the bed, whose kisses show just how much he wants your body? You can't claw at the vibrator's back while it thrusts into you, nor does your vibrator know exactly what kind of dirty talk makes you writhe in anticipation.
ReplyDeleteSame with guys - if you prefer a plastic sex doll over a real woman, I'm not going to actively try to change your mind, but you should really think about why you feel that way...
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ReplyDeleteThis is really Hot Topic, hahaha
I never seen people so much interested in my post like you guys did.
I guess it's hard topic and you guys having much of ways to deal with it.....
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I prefer the real thing. always as long as he's trying and not being an asshole about it... and even then I think I'll just look for a better real thing if that's bad... (though it would probably never be unbearable considering the fact that I'd only do that with someone I love)
ReplyDeletetoys... psh